13 Oct
同志
他性格開朗 ! 他做事認真 ! 他有理想 ! 有抱负 ! 是一個有為的輕年 ! 他的名字叫 ” 同志 ” .
前一陣子我出席了一個 party , 是朋友硬要我去當評判 ! 我很久都沒有出席夜間場所了 , 所以有一點不習慣 ! 店裡真的有好多帥哥 , 每一位都這麼帥 ! 從頭看到尾除了我以外一個女人都沒有 , 我才知道我到了什麼地方~~~~~~??? 但是那裡的氣息我一點也不陌生 , 一點也不會害怕 , 我很快的就溶入他们的交談中 , 而且大多數的人我都認識 , 我們一見面是又摟又抱大家都非常的熱情 ! 他們講話非常幽默風趣 , 敢講又夠賤 !!!
只是我不經的懷疑也嘆息 ! 人數這麼多 , 而且每一個都長得這麼標誌 ! 會不會有一點可惜 ? 怎麼全天下的女人都死光了嗎 ? 女人這麼可愛 ! 為什麼不愛女人 ??? 男人 愛 男人 ! 女人 愛 女人 !
同性戀是渾然天成的嗎 ? 心裡學家說 : 沒有科學根據 , 新加坡對 ” 同性戀 “ 的態度越來越開放 , 但是他們的生活資態並沒有越來越寬大 , 法律上來說 : 同性戀沒有犯法 , 能牽手 能親嘴 ! 但是 不能 ( 肛交 ) !!!??? 不能 ( 肛交 ) 那同性戀該用什麼 ” 交 “ ???!!!??? ( 神交 ) lor 那怎樣 !!! 只要心領神会就可以了是不 ?
對同性戀我沒有特別喜歡 , 更沒有排斥他們 , 我喜歡他們對工作的態度 , 他們對生命的詮釋 , 對朋友的忠誠 , 往往都比我們普通人來得更加真心 ! 所以在很多的工作領域上他們都有很杰出的成績 , 我喜歡跟他們的溝通方式 , 在他們的世界裡我很快樂 !!!
October 14th, 2007 at 6:51 pm
It’s alright how others want to lead their lives. Sometimes the society puts too much pressure for people to live up to it’s expectations.
Problem comes when there’s someone in the family with the ’same tendency’ and then the double standard thingy will surface!
Be kind to others to be kind to oneself
October 14th, 2007 at 8:19 pm
October 14th, 2007 at 8:32 pm
哇姐姐。。你的错别字是多的咯。。
October 14th, 2007 at 9:31 pm
thank for the comment on guy / lesbian…
October 15th, 2007 at 10:27 am
對同性戀我沒有特別喜歡 , 更沒有排斥他們 , 我喜歡他們對工作的態度 , 他們對生命的詮釋 , 對朋友的忠誠
> this comment is biased… like all humans, there are good man and bad man, there are also gay and lesbian out there who are exactly opposite of what you described.. so there is no need to stereotype people, whether they are straight, gay or lesbian. We should respect each and every individual as they are, and not characterize or label any “group” of people which you want to “group” as one..
往往都比我們普通人來得更加真心 !
> there is a problem here… when you said “we normal people”, you are already meaning that you think we lesbians and gays are “abnormal people”? You seem to be open and receptive to gay and lesbian, but deep in your heart, you still differentiate us as being not normal like heterosexual. This is not true and whole-hearted acceptance of people who have different sexual orientation as from you whom you think is “normal”.
Only when people do not refer to other people as what/who is normal and what/who is not normal, then we will have real indiscrimation and respect towards all mankind. Thank you.
October 15th, 2007 at 10:40 am
我不会排斥他们，但是我也觉得可惜，好多都是帅哥哦！
October 15th, 2007 at 1:16 pm
October 15th, 2007 at 1:54 pm
我有幾個很要好的男”同志”朋友,
雖然”同志”做愛做的事是犯法的但是他們更本是不會理會的喔!!!
我的朋友常常跟我講他門如何去找他們的艷遇呢! 大多數他們會到健身房,游泳池等地方…
如果合拍那馬上就可以搞定了喔!
誰管他犯不犯法,他們想做就做才不管呢!
我另外一位男”同志”朋友,他好多年前找了個男中學生當他男朋友,我的朋友大概大他差不多15歲吧. 但偶爾我的朋友說他還是會偷吃喔!
我並不反對,但是說實在的找個學生我覺得有點不道德,因為他們還沒有機會嘗試”正常”的男女戀就被引誘變為同志,真的有點…
喔,對了他們一般都喜歡小男生或阿兵哥喔!
我不知道為身麼可能因為他們比較嫩吧!
October 15th, 2007 at 2:05 pm
Hi,
Met you at Shoot 3 @ Toa Payoh HDB Hub on Saturday.
I was the one who arranged Mr & Mrs Ng and Dr Lee to be interviewed at yoru programme.
Am really glad that mental health issues are being discussed openly.
Thank you so much for your effort for making the show an interesting one.
October 15th, 2007 at 4:28 pm
在新加坡当个同性恋，压力很大的，空间那么小，走在街上，到处都是人。牵手都要看在那里牵啊，不小心撞上四姨婆，三姑姐，完蛋！家人的面子不懂往哪里摆。工作人士，有经济能力，可以往国外飞，往酒店钻，有车可以到处去。什么都没有的，真不知道除了白天压抑，戴面具，晚上去夜间场所找同类，，还可以做什么？
双面人的生活，相信很多同志都有这种经验。
有头发，谁要当秃头？
October 15th, 2007 at 10:02 pm
我也很纳闷为什么多数的同志都比较杰出
后来想了想
我想是他们必须在有限的圈子里突出一些
所以不得不努力吧@@?
October 15th, 2007 at 10:21 pm
男人爱男人,女人爱女人?又怎么样?真正的爱情与性别无关!
难道就为了些流言,为了道德,而让自己去和一个不爱的人结婚,然后再争吵一辈子吗?
害人害己,更害了下一代!!!
October 16th, 2007 at 12:59 pm
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October 16th, 2007 at 1:00 pm
takecare and bye !
October 16th, 2007 at 1:16 pm
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October 16th, 2007 at 3:56 pm
男人爱男人，女人爱女人，有人觉得是可以选择的。
可以是选择，也可以不是选择。
若你是同志，选择:
1./ 异性恋，然后开心快乐，恭喜你。当然，这个其实只有你自己最清楚。
2./ 异性恋，然后不开心不快乐。自己的选择，后果自己要承担。自己或许并不开心但是身边的人看到你做了他们觉得“对”的选择，应该会开心。
3./ 同性恋，然后开心快乐，祝福你。找到真爱不容易，不理世俗眼光，需要莫大的勇气。
4./同性恋，然后不开心。找人谈谈吧，这个心理障碍要靠自己跨过去。
5./不当异性恋也不当同性恋，自己一个人。
如果你是异性恋者，想象自己是同性恋，你会做什么选择？
选择，其实所有的事是可以选择的，只是你所选带给自己快乐还是悲伤？
有空可以看一看Paulo Coelho 的“The Devil and Miss Pyrm”，很引人深思。
October 17th, 2007 at 4:03 am
互相尊重，才是较重要的。
不管是不是同志，大家都要过自己的生活吧。
October 17th, 2007 at 12:25 pm
神交不是一个选择, 杰出是因為他們能跨过男女爱情上的 problems and stay focus in works.
For Men, 同性恋 less offensive, easy to get a long and no 障碍 with womens.
同性恋是一个选择 and is not human nature.
In the world, human being have only one problem, that is how we think.
October 17th, 2007 at 4:35 pm
why?so many gays in media industry
do u discriminate your colleagues who are? is mediacorp supportive of them
October 18th, 2007 at 3:21 am
一个人只要能做十二个字就够圆满了，诸恶莫做，众善奉行，利己利他就很好了。
October 18th, 2007 at 12:01 pm
I like ur comments! really v interesting jokes
Laugh out loud!!! Thanks for making me laugh under stress.
October 18th, 2007 at 4:02 pm
Pengfei,
I beg to differ, with regards to your comments.
1)For your info, many scientific researches have proven that homosexual activity and homosexual relationships DO exist throughout nature—in dogs,cows,lions,birds and more. (You can always google on it if you have doubts you may want to verify.)
And humans are obviously part of nature, except that humans, unlike animals, have been socialised and ‘moulded’ to fit into social norms and furthermore, we are taught to fulfill the expectations of society at large.
I do not want to go into whether homosexuality is socially acceptable as that is subjective to diverse cultures, religions, and personal values. My point is that Mother Nature did NOT exclude homosexuality when creating the world.
2) Although some might have achieved ‘gayism’, majority of homosexuals are, however, proven to realise their sexual orientation at the estimated age of 6 and they can see no other ways other than being what they are. That goes the same for heterosexuals.
Therefore, your claim that it is a choice does not stand. That’s a mere assumption on your part. Well, perhaps becos you’re born a heterosexual.
Oh, and homosexuals do experience love problems one ok? They’re not as shallow as most may assumed. Haha.
October 18th, 2007 at 5:05 pm
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我们哪里可以让实至名归的名嘴“皇后”失威？！或许有些人会认为得这些奖只不过是“虚名”，但人生本来就是虚虚实实掺杂在一起，尤其干娱乐这行的，有“名”总是好过没“名”嘛。
您的每一通电话，将会是对小凤凤的一分鼓励与认同，能帮助她更有自信地继续往她的演艺道路发奋前进，将来当她百年归老时，也可以有多一个奖座向她的子子孙孙炫耀。。。
希望大家一起来，多多拨打电话：1900-112-3029支持权怡凤！
October 18th, 2007 at 5:26 pm
I’m a man.
October 19th, 2007 at 4:14 pm
The only natural way that Man still alive in this era and not like dinosaur being extinct is because God allow so. Only when a man and a woman come together, will there be a chance for next generation. Many commented that Gays and Lesbians are more gentle to partners and more successful and whatsoever. But i think that is rubbish. It is not just about morality, but about how a man should provide and care for his family, and how a wife should support and look after the need of the family. Calling yourself a Les or Gay is just pure selfish, so that you can Brand yourself as special and blame all other people in the societies for sterotyping them.
October 20th, 2007 at 1:09 am
嘿！ 原来你也有blog得丫！呵呵。。以后一定常来支持你的︿︿
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October 20th, 2007 at 7:36 am
其实每个人都有自己的生活方式，只要不伤害到第三者，是同志有如何？难道同志就不是人吗？我们何必自鸣清高的来排挤他们？我们又好得了多少？还是自扫门前雪吧！
October 20th, 2007 at 1:17 pm
说道同志会搞到世界灭亡其实很肤浅（轰炸吧，早预料）。这个世界是充满着不同的人事物。异性恋者没办法同化所有人成为同性恋者，同性恋者也同样不可能把所有的人类变成同性恋者然后把世界灭亡的。世界大不同，所有的不同是并存的而不是只能照着一个模式走。像布什都不可能让整个世界认同他出兵的理由时，同志那么有威力啊？
你的方式适合你，不代表就是事实的全部。
叫不叫自己同志，关其他人何事？
找同性，关其他人何事?
异性恋者，若不是你的伴侣，孩子，父母，亲人，其他人是不是同志，关你何事?
不同意，可以继续不同意。这个世界是可以接受不同的形势生存的。
October 20th, 2007 at 4:49 pm
怡鳳姐
你好啊。朋友告訴我妳的blog很好看，所以就來看看。
對你，我很欣賞，可能是因爲你的説話風格和我很相似吧，我説話很直接，有時候也很賤 哈哈。
關於‘同志‘議題。。。我在臺灣呆過5年，在臺灣，臺北市我可以和男友牽手逛街，頂多只是被路人看幾眼，沒有不舒服的眼神。在新加坡。。。天啊，什麽都沒做，只是穿著稍微和所謂‘正常’的異性戀者不一樣，我就立刻變成怪物。
臺灣是文化的故鄉，新加坡…還沒有資格被列入xx故鄉….
加油，權姐姐….
一樹
October 20th, 2007 at 9:44 pm
I live life as I think it is best. I do not really bother much about what others think. Having to enjoy life to the fullest with my family is my only wish.
Be blessed with good health to you, Yi Fong.
October 21st, 2007 at 10:28 am
最近有人提议废除377A形事法典. 我想知道你对这个有什么意见吗? 对与你所发表的意见, 这算不算是你支持废除377A形事法典?
October 23rd, 2007 at 7:45 pm
你能把你的英文学好吗！
October 25th, 2007 at 3:56 am
？？？“道”………？？？人生自古谁无死，留公积金买年金。种豆得豆！
October 28th, 2007 at 12:47 am
嗨，
不知道你习不习惯读英文，写中文可能比较好。
看了有话就说，才知道你有部落格。谢谢你不排斥我们这一群，而且在广告里也看到你有很多机会对男模们毛手毛脚。真羡慕！
是啊，同志们很多都是超帅的。但是就因为如此，很多都以外表来去的满足感，让自己更有自信，让别人多看自己几眼。自豪在这里，问题也在这里。外表太过优越，就越会引起他人的性趣，也就因此，很多人找不到持久的爱。可悲。
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5) lesbian :
i dun think she meant really “normal” n “abnormal” people, but she din find the proper word to use.
i tink she’s oni trying to say, some people are very successful in life, and some are not. The former tends to be homo folks, the latter hetero ones. She has to differentiate them somehow to show the difference..
6) pauline :
ya, a lot of yandao.. but sometimes, str8 guys oso lotsa yandaoz n cuties!! whenever i see them in public, i can oni wish them forever happiness (amei song, yes haha).
is the 15yo bf still wif ur frn? if it’;s been a yr liao, den… gd for them. if it’s off or been oni short while, perhaps it’s a chance for the boy to see if he likes being wif a guy? for everything, u nvr know until u try. If you dun like, u can always exit.. right?
we like boys, cos they are usually V cute, but hopefully, and mostly true, they keep it to an admiration, and dun do anything. army boys… that’s when boys become men and develop MuScLes!! nice to touch and feel!!
10) 848:
it depends on how open n daring u r? when i went out wif my exes, i din bother abt anyone’s attitude, i oni have my bf in sight. i look into my bf’s eyes lovingly. if passers-by wanna show attitude, it’s jus shows how disturbed they r, but who r they to judge wat we can do? we do wat we r happy abt, why shld they care?
12) 风
你是凤姐，还是别人？
some ppl, under family pressure, had to get married… that’s a very sad thing. other than that, i dun see why they have to… although i do have plans to marry a lesbian, while my bf marries her gf, and we buy a flat n live together to support 1 another.. =D
18) pengfei:
who says homo folks DUN have problems? b4 u criticise them, how about knowing them more, before letting out any vicious comments? that is, if u care to knw them more.
y do u say homo is a choice? r u able to make urself choose to make love to a guy? and jerk him off? or can u oni do it to a ger?
25) joseph L :
not again, using a religion to deem a path as wrong.
umm, let me ask u, rather than speaking against homo, wat about those divorced ppl? or those who came from broken families? are they not even selfish? homo folks still take care of their families. n wat’s so special abt us? jus ‘cos we like ppl of the same sex?
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凤姐，不好意思，首次浏览贵页就写了这么多留言。
November 1st, 2007 at 1:13 am
不把自己定义为”同志”只是爱上了和自己一样的性别….这是一个病态的社会,”这世界孤单的需要一个同类”
November 9th, 2007 at 12:17 pm
我可能只是一位未成年的青少年，
但我始终坚信这爱能够跨越的种种障碍。
我们见识过了年龄，种族，语言等例子，
但我很懊恼，为何唯独性别，至今仍很多人不能接受。
什么正常，什么不正常，又由谁决定？
谁给了一个人类判定另一个人类的权力？
人类皆平等，希望大家别用异样的眼光注视他们认为不正常的事或物。
November 14th, 2007 at 2:48 am
i tot shoot got discuss b4…..
but den u sound abit of anti,hurhur.
no offence meant.
oh btw wanna know if u reply to ppls comments??
November 25th, 2007 at 5:33 pm
u vvv funny