27 Nov
给自己的一封信
一直以来, 我都觉得你是幸运的. 打从再次投入这可爱的四方盒子开始, 公司, 工作人员, 身边的朋友和观众总是对你疼爱有加. 哪怕是在你做错事的时候, 虽然大夥儿对你百般苛责, 但是他们的出发点,都是为了你好.
人, 总无法万事如愿吧… 在婚姻这条路上, 你拌了一跤.
我站在一旁, 清楚的看着, 你如何咬紧牙, 忍着痛… 或许是当下的那一阵痛吧? 模糊了你的视线…
你没看到吗? 当你忍痛抬起头时, 你眼前有着无数双手, 准备把你扶起… 其中, 包括那一只, 你紧握了十年的手…
倔强的你, 最终还是靠自己, 站了起来…
虽然大夥儿没开口, 但我清清楚楚听到了他们内心里所发出的声音…
” 站起来就好… 跌倒了不要怕, 洗涤了伤口之后, 给它时间… 因为… 它总会愈合的. 痛过, 才会更能体会所谓的 真.善.美. “
无所谓… 过去的吵吵闹闹…
无所谓… 曾经历的风风雨雨…
一切总会过去…
疼爱你的人, 会在适当的时候放开手, 让你自由自在, 追寻你向往的天堂…
November 27th, 2008 at 10:32 am
有时放手可能比紧握更快乐 ~ 祝你幸福！
November 27th, 2008 at 11:09 am
Dear,
I think this is the best way….you are young and there is a long path awaiting you….
BE HAPPY, BE STRONG….
Always love you,
Jess
November 27th, 2008 at 11:14 am
YiFeng, sad to hear that but it may be the best choice.
祝你永远幸福，快乐！
We will always support U ! Take Care !
November 27th, 2008 at 11:29 am
Hi YiFeng,
Is not easy for you. I know you are in depression and you are able to understand those in depression very well. you know the hard part and why those words or theory don’t work for someone who is depressed,etc. Hope you can share more in details and let ppl be more tolerant, more encourage, more patient and more understanding to someone in depressed. because heard your view,etc, when you host with zhen rong and guo liang (in 2 variety shows) but is too short and too brief.
I also hope you can have a happy life from now on and continue to be frank person as you are. jia you!!!
November 27th, 2008 at 11:39 am
有时候放手未必是件坏事。可以理解你所经历的内心挣扎，毕竟要承认自己在人生路上的失败是困难的。有感而发！
相信你已拟好接下来的路该如何走，我祝福你，衷心的祝福你接下来的日子会活得更开心，更快乐，更充实。
November 27th, 2008 at 11:55 am
hi怡凤,
嗯,有些问题,始终问不出… 是我当娱乐记者的失败,但却衷心祝福你和女儿,幸福快乐.You deserve a better and happier life
November 27th, 2008 at 11:58 am
In a relationship, when a man loves a woman, he will try his best to please and give you happiness..
When a man does not love the woman anymore, he will give her 101 excuses to call off the relationship..
Sometimes i wonder, is it worth for a woman to do this much or sacrifice for her man? When a man is being crude, he will never put all this credits in his list.. U agree?
November 27th, 2008 at 12:57 pm
jia you!!! wish u hv a happiness 4ever!!!
dun gv up!!! u r the best 1…
November 27th, 2008 at 1:12 pm
该放手时候就放手，未来还有很长的路要走，加油！
November 27th, 2008 at 2:04 pm
yi fong
祝福你和你的girl，希望你們會更快樂。
你和他能走到這裡，也算是緣分。
不必太自責。
November 27th, 2008 at 2:18 pm
亲爱的怡风：我也是过来人所以了解你的问题！看开点啦！好好的过你的新生活吧！Cheers!
November 27th, 2008 at 2:34 pm
离婚不是什么末日，执迷不悟才是慢性的自杀！
November 27th, 2008 at 2:34 pm
已放手了，就不要再说了。。。
重要的是过的开心，有句老话：做不成一世夫妻，可以做朋友。
November 27th, 2008 at 3:05 pm
Stand up, I think you have made a right choice now…
November 27th, 2008 at 3:30 pm
Face your past without regret… Handle your present with confidence… Prepare for the future without fear…. Be Strong And Be Happy…..
November 27th, 2008 at 3:42 pm
nobody wants this happen. be strong..
alice
November 27th, 2008 at 3:46 pm
你要加油，要加強。
你真心開懷大笑時， 最美。
跌倒了， 在站起來。。不好還怕， 要咬緊牙關， 堅強走下去。
你很勇敢， 一定ok的。
November 27th, 2008 at 4:12 pm
Yi fong
在你還沒寫這之前，其實我有佷多話想對你說。
我和你一樣，有個九嵗女儿。也和你一樣經歷風風雨雨。現在還在挽救這段marriage。為的是給女儿一個完整的傢。也是給自己最後機會。i hope u have tried.
現在divorce很普遍，就因爲你是藝人，也是要堅強面對。深深的祝福你！
Take good care of your daughter, she has to go thru with you too.
我很欣賞你，也希望你快樂。
November 27th, 2008 at 4:29 pm
walk the path your heart most wanted to go… it is most likely the path you will walk thru’ your life.
others’ comment/remarks?
aiya, pretend your hearing is failing, cannot hear!
November 27th, 2008 at 5:02 pm
加油，你可以重新站起来的！也一定会活得比现在更快乐！
November 27th, 2008 at 8:47 pm
YiFeng,
Be strong and be happy.
November 27th, 2008 at 9:17 pm
付出过，努力过，所以无怨无悔。放下感情的牵绊，让彼此可以大步迈向各自期盼的未来。
祝福你，也祝福他。
November 27th, 2008 at 9:19 pm
不知如何说起，但人生是自己走出来的。
无论做出什么决定，开心最重要。
这段路刚开始或许会难熬，但我对你有信心！
祝你幸福！
November 27th, 2008 at 9:22 pm
怡风姐！加油加油！
你是最棒的！
November 27th, 2008 at 9:48 pm
你要勇敢地继续走下去。。。。我相信你一定会过得更快乐。。。。
加油！！！
November 27th, 2008 at 10:25 pm
加油，怡凤！
有时候放弃也是一种快乐。不要后悔自己的决定，要用于面对自己的选择和感情。
祝你幸福，快乐得往前走。。。。
November 27th, 2008 at 10:37 pm
嗨你好，我常注意你的新闻，虽谈不上是纷
丝，但喜欢你主持的讨论会。
外在的压力虽然很大，但人活着就要看到好
的，快乐的，xin fu 的事， 珍惜现在拥有的。
看看这里的留言，你的朋友， 孩子， 姑婆，
看看这是支持，是接受，是关怀，是爱。。
那你就用你所剩的力量去感受，去接受，去体
会。
祝：万事顺利，身心健康。
November 28th, 2008 at 7:55 am
真的无法挽回了吗? 我觉得你们很相陪. 想信事后他会想念你,你会挂念他. 无论如何, 祝福你们.
放松心情, 就没那么难过.
Take care.
November 28th, 2008 at 8:52 am
U hv talked too much, now U hv taken action. It is time to seal yr lips to protect yours and dauther privacy.
November 28th, 2008 at 9:26 am
送你一首张国荣的歌
点击此处
从前我会使你快乐
现在却最多叫你寂寞
再吻下去像皱纸轻薄
撕开了都不觉
#我这苦心已有预备
随时有块破璃破碎堕地
勉强下去我会憎你
只差那一口气
不信眼泪能令失乐的你爱下去
难收的覆水将感情慢慢荡开去
如果你太累及时地道别没有罪
牵手来空手去就去
#我这苦心已有预备
随时有块破璃破碎堕地
勉强下去我会憎你
只差那一口气
不信眼泪能令失乐的你爱下去
难收的覆水将感情慢慢荡开去
如果你太累及时地道别没有罪
牵手来空手去就去
一起要许多福气
或者承受不起
或者怀恨比相爱更合理
即使可悲
不信眼泪能令失乐的你爱下去
难收的覆水将感情慢慢荡开去
如果你太累及时地道别没有罪
一生人不只一伴侣
你会记得我是谁
犹如偶尔想起过气玩具
我抱住过那怕失去
早想到玻璃很易碎
November 28th, 2008 at 9:41 am
HI Yi feng
Although i just went through a short relationship, then my ex-bf break off with me.
Like Crystal mentioned, when a guy love me, he can even steal the moon in the sky for you. When he no longer love you, he will try all avoid you. Like my ex, i try all way to patch back and apologise to him for some personal misunderstanding. He just refused to listen, hang up my calls and show to his friends about my sms and letter.
I am disappointed with his attitude and action. I put in my sincerely to him yet he just treat this relationship as nothing. He can even told me Lan de qi fan de xia.
No moe tears for him anymore. During our cold war, i saw him having fun with his friends outside. He can forget me. When i face my family problem, i discuss with him. He dislike my parents and asked me to settle my family issues. There wasn’t any support from him..
If Yi Feng jie can stand up through this hardlife, i also can.
I will not blame him or curse him as i did love him before. I will punish him let the god do the necessary.
November 28th, 2008 at 9:52 am
Yifong, marriage is between two person and so is divorce too. Both have a big part to play in it. Guess what’s important now is that you have to realise and evaluate if there’s is something you’ve got to learn and change too. Wishing you all the best.
November 28th, 2008 at 9:56 am
还记得在有一次节目的安排之下，宏荣为弥补对你的心愿，而准备了“游艇求婚之旅”，在SuperStar们的歌声下 。。。相信让很多人留下深刻印象 。。。当时我也因感动而落泪 。。。
虽然不希望看到这样的结局，但是这是你的选择 。。。身为你的朋友，都会尊重你的决定 。
开心也是这样过一天 ，伤心也是这样过一天 。。
所以我们因该 。。。选择快乐 。。。
http://qianhoong0603.blog.friendster.com/
November 28th, 2008 at 10:06 am
Yesterday is a past today is a gift tomorrow is a miracle.
November 28th, 2008 at 10:07 am
离婚是放下和解决问题的管道,也昰个终点和起点的交接….要下定决心已经很不简单了……既然已做出了决定就该往前走……..就当是一个开始吧! 好好的走下去……告诉自己再难过的日子,我都过,前面还会有什么路我走不过呢!
要相信:”没有以前的你, 就没有现在的我, 因为有你才有现在的我, 没有你就沒有现在的我.”
只要你领悟这个道理……你会拥有别人没有的快乐和阔达……………….
加油吧!
你永远都昰我们心目中的名嘴…….!
November 28th, 2008 at 10:25 am
Hi 怡 风,
相信你已经尽力而为. 放手也未必是一件坏事.我欣赏你的性格和勇气!
Life is like a movie, you are the director, producer, cameraman and of cos the main lead…its abt urself and how u want this life movie of urs to be like…
祝福你天天快乐! 加油!!
November 28th, 2008 at 10:29 am
YiFeng 加油 ! I fully support you and you have make a correct decision. I am sure you will find happiness one day. Your fan, Maggie Xu
November 28th, 2008 at 10:34 am
不要再哭泣….不要再回头….. 不要给自己压力……一切随缘……..加油……
November 28th, 2008 at 10:38 am
babe, sorry my chinese really sucks and i cannot write chinese to save my life. but just want to tell u that you’re the best.
so proud of u cos i m sure u must have had so much bitterness but now u r able to walk out of it in a positive way.
love to mei mei too.
hugz
November 28th, 2008 at 11:12 am
我想很多人会和我相同,不喜欢甚至讨厌你,因为你对另一半太无情了,常常把彼此之
间的事情和秘密毫无保留摊在所有人面前.. 但是今天从这文章,可以看出你变了,看
透了.. 写得非常动人.. 只有看清的人才有能力以文笔勾勒出这样的画面吧? 以前
的执着迷糊,现在回想是那么的无知. 人生还有更重要的东西要处理. 努力吧!
November 28th, 2008 at 11:14 am
I admit I wasnt surprised when I read the news (given Peter’s bad habits), but indeed my heart sank a little. Divorce is indeed an ugly thing that could only be done out of neccesity when you’ve lost that loving feeling. My cousin had a tough time growing up cos her parents were divorced when she was in JC. I understand its not easy for you to make this choice, but I respect it no matter what. I do hope you and your daughter Eleanor stay strong thru this difficult period.
November 28th, 2008 at 11:20 am
您好！
像您一样，我也选择了与相处10年的另一半离婚。（不过手续正在进行中。） 我也有个可爱的女儿。 她才未满一岁。 这10年的感情得来不易却又非常辛苦。若没有我的女儿，我可能还会继续呆在这个不幸福的婚姻。太多指责与争吵。太辛苦了。最终之苦了我们和孩子。
一段婚姻若另一半不懂得爱护与珍惜我们是很可悲的。 我曾经一味的希望有一天会雨过天晴，但事与愿违。不如放弃，从新出发。人生的路并不难走。只要有爱你的人和你爱的人在身边就足够了。
请您继续坚强下去。我们一定能克服这一切，与我们的女儿过真正开心的日子。
我们一起加油！！
祝你永远幸福，快乐。(^_^)
November 28th, 2008 at 11:27 am
幸福或不幸福时只有你自己可以判断的，不要去在意被人怎么说。你认为离婚会是对彼此最好的选择那么没人没有资格说你是错的，应为除了你，没人会更了解这个故事该如何收场。朋友和粉丝们能给的只是鼓励和关怀。
希望你能咬紧牙关，这只是人生的一段小插曲。过了这一关，你将会更快乐与自由。希望你能找回属于你的快乐
take care
November 28th, 2008 at 12:36 pm
怡凤，
从心晴总动员看到了您的另外一面.
小弟我不善言词, 只想祝福您!
加油!明天会更好!
November 28th, 2008 at 1:24 pm
Forgive, forget, let go of all past grievances and start afresh. Love yourself so that your girl will also learn to live with self respect and dignity. You have the right to be happy and you can. All the best.
November 28th, 2008 at 2:15 pm
[...] her blogShe wrote abt her thoughts, her true feeling. Many pple think she is a very 泼辣 woman, but I [...]
November 28th, 2008 at 2:23 pm
加油!!!
November 28th, 2008 at 3:19 pm
一直想找机会跟你交流。 因为你和我的遭遇实在太象了 — 一个不间断花心的老公和一个九岁乖/贴心的女儿。 只是，你比我勇敢多了。 你终于踏出了这一步， 而我还在死忍。
你受的苦我都理解， 相信也只有你能了解我现在的感受。 男人为什么能残忍的摧毁一个家呢？还能理直气壮。 唉！
可否有个机会向你讨教？ 如何活出自我？ 可以回个电邮给我吗？我快憋死了。。。好痛苦。。。
November 28th, 2008 at 3:22 pm
人生风雨路，你这么年轻就看得比别人远比别人透。当爱不在了放开吧！让自己也让对方再次追梦。很心痛你！我也因为走出去了以前的黑暗才有机会再多爱一次，到今天已多了15年的快乐，没有后悔当年想了很久，挣扎很多怕会伤了孩子家人亲人，谈离婚是何等的辛苦。祝你以后活得实在，快乐！
November 28th, 2008 at 4:06 pm
凤姐，
听见这则消息，很伤心。。。虽然我们大概1年前才认识你（以工作人员的身份）
总觉得有点感触。。。但是还是祝福你。。。
就像振荣在他的部落格写，也许分手后会比较快乐，继续留着会更伤
最重要是一定要快乐
在此祝福你，永远快乐
童子（DARREN)
November 28th, 2008 at 4:27 pm
不只是你的朋友會支持你,身為觀眾的我也會為你加油和打氣.
祝福你,他和你的女兒.
November 28th, 2008 at 4:31 pm
I think this is something you should have done earlier, at least you have the courage to walk this path.
Hope you will be happier this way.
only worry would be your daughter.
November 28th, 2008 at 4:45 pm
怡凤：
很难过听到这样的结局。但我相信你的选择，是最终决定。
感情这回事，没有对于错！！！放弃不是所有，最主要是自己如何看待。放开，接受，面对。。。坦然地去活出自己，你会更加的快乐！
加油！
November 28th, 2008 at 5:28 pm
祝福你….要放得下并不容易…..时间可以改变一却.
我的遭遇更可悲
明天会更好，人在做，天在看.
November 28th, 2008 at 5:49 pm
既然以是定局，就不要想太多了。
这也是你人生成长的一部分。
这个包袱也因该放下了，从新上路吧！好好过你的生活。
祝你开开心心。
November 28th, 2008 at 10:23 pm
美人鱼，加油！
人生的路还很长，没有谁会因为失去了谁就活不了的。
世界已经那么乱，珍惜活着的每一天，珍惜当下，要努力让自己快乐的生活。
你会活得更精彩！
November 28th, 2008 at 10:40 pm
一直以来我都觉得你很坚强，独立，敢做敢为，不畏畏缩缩，是个很真的人。很欣赏像你这样的女人。沟通，包容，尊重。。。这一些东西在两个人相处的世界里是非常重要的。我们女人不必委曲求全。 我们只活那么一次，所以更要过得开心，不浪费生命！ 无论你的决定是什么，只要问心无愧，也就不必理会别人的舆论。 祝你健康，快乐，幸福！
November 28th, 2008 at 11:43 pm
Hello YiFong,
Although I’m only 15 years old, and don’t know much about life because my experiences are limited, I am encouraged by your courage, boldness and strength of character. You are always unpretentious, frank and open. I admire your transparency, as you do not put on a facade. Continue to be yourself– Dare to Dream, Believe, and Press on towards your Goal!!
“I keep pursuing the goal to win the prize of God’s heavenly call in the Messiah Jesus. Philippians 3:14″
On a lighter note, please vote for my design work at the following website: http://www.freeagentinspires.com/register.aspx
My design is on PAGE 6, ENTRY NO. 54.
Shalom!
November 29th, 2008 at 2:51 am
你的选择是对的。
你会更开心更幸福的。
相信我吧!!
更难过的日子都过去了。。。
Cheers!!
u look great on TV so u should look great in real life……
November 29th, 2008 at 11:15 am
前面还有很多路要走，千万不要放弃。
November 29th, 2008 at 11:57 am
不 管 怎 样 ,天 还 是 一 样 的 宽 阔 ,海 一 样 的 蓝 . ..但 愿 您 的 每 一 天 都 那 么 漂 亮 . 加 油 ,怡 凤 .您 行 的 !!
November 29th, 2008 at 5:10 pm
if this is the best solution i will support you all the way
November 30th, 2008 at 12:56 am
Yifeng Jie,
V long din write to u. I dun know if u stil remember me. But kind of sad and happy for you. I’m nt good in words abt this incident of yours. But I always believe that you will know what is best for yourself and we all, either your supporters, friends, and loved ones around you will be here for you. Remember: Focus on your future now. You have a lot of the tomorrows. Past is an experience for us. We can’t change the past, but we can decide our future. Be nice to yourself and be happy. OK?
“Failure is not fatal; It’s the courage to continue that counts”
November 30th, 2008 at 1:42 am
whatever lost, you will gain something in return. life is somehow, still fair.
love is not everything, now u still have your girl, your friends who cares. u’re not alone, my dear. =)
afterall, what matter most, is the life that brings u happiness, peace, joy and laughter.
what really matter is, you, yourself.
nothing’s too big to solve.
give yourself a little break..
feel the breeze
enjoy the peace
让你忙碌的心
安抚，平静下来
日子还长呢
SMILE!! =)))
its ok to crumple once in a while, thats the way to feel human. take all the time u need, ultimately just slowly fix everything back into shape and let your heart, mind and soul start all over again.
do whatever it takes to complete yourself alright. =))
November 30th, 2008 at 10:09 am
Hi,
Just want to share with you that I have been through this too. You are not alone. When a door closes, another opens.
I have found my happiness now and I believe you will find yours soon.
Jia you!
November 30th, 2008 at 7:33 pm
人生总会遇到许许多多的风风雨雨 ， 所以你一定要勇敢的走下去。。。记得快乐是最重要的。。。。
我深深的祝福你！！！
November 30th, 2008 at 11:14 pm
tomorrow will b better, don’t forget there’s still lots of peoples out here supporting u!! jia-you….
December 1st, 2008 at 1:41 am
i don’t know you personally but i feel the strength in you. But don’t take it all upon yourself to be tough all the time, take a break and rest your soul before you pick yourself up and get back to this wonderful life. You still have your friends and family who love and support you, and your lovely daughter who needs you now. There’s so much in life to look forward to.. we are more fortunate in so many ways than many others in this world. Take care.
December 1st, 2008 at 3:20 am
您的消息大部分是我从报章上看到的，今天有幸能在你的部落留言，是我的荣幸！
怡风大家：
您的勇敢是大家已经看到的，祝福您在接下的日子要保持开朗的心情。唯有这样，你才会快乐！我不知要说些什么，就是短短的祝福，希望事件能让您慢慢的开心起来！
加油！
我们会支持您的！
一位来自邻国的观众~佑仔~
December 1st, 2008 at 3:21 am
哎呀，我打错字了！
应该是
怡风大姐：
December 1st, 2008 at 1:39 pm
怡凤
你要坚强
未来的路还是得走
不开心的也过去了
开心的也过去了
再难熬的你也熬过了
放手也许是对的选择
只要爱过就好
只是得更珍惜接下来的一切
从报纸上看到你离婚的消息
也替你感到难过
你要开心哦
以前的就不要再替起了
当作你记忆中的某个回忆
其实你已经很幸福了
加油
我们支持你=]
December 1st, 2008 at 6:34 pm
hello 怡凤，我蛮欣赏你的，我觉得你是一个很坚强的女人；加油吧。。放手你会觉得你比从前快乐。。你会觉得活得更精彩开心。。
加油哦。。
December 1st, 2008 at 7:39 pm
It’s a new life ahead, a second chance to live a life you wanted. You are lucky, at least you are rich and have less worries about money, unlike a lot of woman who dare not divorce because they are housewives. They can only bear with it.
Good luck to you!
December 1st, 2008 at 8:03 pm
Marriage is part of our life, there is no gain or loss in this game.
Don’t think of the past, look forward for future. You will be more happier than before if you really 放下.
December 1st, 2008 at 10:13 pm
怡凤。。。人生道路终会有离离合合。。。如果哪是你觉得最好的选择，我衷心祝福你。 我会为你祈祷希望不愉快的快点离开你。
在《〈心晴大动员〉》 你帮了也看了很多可怜的家庭。。你应该庆幸你的日子比他们还明亮。 从新站起来我相信你的明天会更美丽！！！ 加油！！！
December 1st, 2008 at 10:36 pm
心很小的时候，世界就变得很小，
小得看不起一片美丽的树叶。
心很乱的时候，路就变得很多，
我们都是这样走失的……
简单的幸福就是：
别想太多，
开心就好。
加油哦仪凤，
好好将女儿带大，
世界会因你而美丽 : )
December 1st, 2008 at 10:44 pm
hi yi feng jie
sad to heard about the news u’hve divorce and seeing you being strong on tv and helping others. can realli see u have really change. u r someone we should learn from..
jia you and dun give up..ur future in ur hands
=)
December 1st, 2008 at 10:59 pm
结婚5年了，可以了解到两个人要融洽快乐的生活在一起，实在不容易。
见到怡凤剖开自己10年的风雨婚姻路，可知她的伤与痛。离婚并不代表戏已落幕，对于孩子来说，依然是同一个爹、同一个娘，大人现在要做的是如何让小孩的伤害减到最轻，并且要帮助孩子学会如何在往后的日子里，更好的去面对父母离异的事实。
December 2nd, 2008 at 2:34 am
I think both Peter & yourself still care (though not love) for each other…It is just that both of you hold on because of responsibilities… now that you have decided.. I wish both of you all the best..I do not believe that Peter is that 花心。。 It is probably his bad habit that you cannot take it.. I do not believe that you are that unreasonable。。To me, you are very real… I like you and I will always support you!!
December 2nd, 2008 at 10:30 am
我觉得你很勇敢。加油。
我听过这样一句话，if it doesn’t kill u, it will make u stronger.
你会过得更好。
December 2nd, 2008 at 1:29 pm
cheer up ((:
http//simplicity-shu.blogspot.com
December 2nd, 2008 at 5:57 pm
never mind…don’t be sad…at least you have some good memerys(don’t know how to spell)with him…anyway…please come to my blog and put a comment there!!!
December 2nd, 2008 at 6:44 pm
仪凤姐；
我很佩服你；这事我也想做很久了，可是我有俩个孩子，而我也不象你这么本事，我只是个小美容师而已》》》我只好静观其变，若他再不变的话，我也会和你一样选择一条开心的路来走的。最后祝你和孩子永远开心快乐过每一天
December 2nd, 2008 at 11:40 pm
u really make me disapointed!!!!
结婚是不是结了就分呢？
December 2nd, 2008 at 11:45 pm
you better going back to your country!
Dont stay sgpore any more.
you really make your friends, fans and your daughter upset !
December 3rd, 2008 at 1:31 am
I feel that u dun need to care what the media reported cos i feel every human which come to this world should leave for OWNSELF not for others why should let those F***ERS lead your life…. if u are not happy with wat u are living in just let go without any regrets in ur rest of ur life….. u still have ur Daughter and Fans… i’m just a passer by ….. DIDI
December 3rd, 2008 at 11:26 am
祝你和你的女儿幸福，快乐！
December 3rd, 2008 at 1:22 pm
I know youe feeling because I have faced this situition last year. Until now I still adjust my to face the fact. We known each other about 20 years and I believe him and give him freedom. Until I have discoved the fair then I need to take depression medicine for 9 months. Lastly I feel that both of us was tired to maintain our relationship. Furthermore I have two kids was too young.
Sometime, really feel tired and meanlingless.
December 3rd, 2008 at 1:38 pm
加油!! 祝你幸福快乐!!
December 4th, 2008 at 12:09 pm
名嘴怡凤。。
一直以来，我都好喜欢你，
你那逗趣的动作，
那张敢死的名嘴，
实在是佩服，佩服。。
每一次你主持的节目，
我都会追看。。
现在知道你的婚姻出了状况，
有点担心你。。。
不过我知道，你很快就能恢复的。。
以你的性格，即使跌倒了，
你还是一样能勇敢地爬起来，即使没人扶持着。。
愿你开心。。幸福。。
加油。。。
kelly wee
December 5th, 2008 at 12:20 pm
hi yi fong, jiayou..
the road ahead will be happier..
December 6th, 2008 at 12:23 pm
Around 1+yrs after u guys got married , i saw ur husband n cao guo hui n mark lee call chicken at lailai health center at east coast road. ur husband got a little bird tatto on his chest rite?i kpo n ask my ger there n was told they r regular there. Cos not easy to catch 1 star chicken liao somemore 3 of them , so after so many yrs , the memory still strong.
B brave n strong , wif or wifout him , ur life still go on.
December 6th, 2008 at 3:37 pm
December 7th, 2008 at 10:38 pm
怡凤~加油!
我一直覺得你是一個很堅強的女人﹐扛了很多抱負。。
現在我依然很佩服你。。
這十幾年來﹐你已經盡了力了。。。
應該是你休息的時候了。。
祝你找到幸福~
加油!
December 8th, 2008 at 5:01 am
无语…
人生如夢如戲。令人煩惱的是，我們經常讓夢凌亂得不由自主，迷迷茫茫地拿錯劇本演錯戲。理出一個明明朗朗的好夢，人生才有價值。-证言法师
加油！
December 8th, 2008 at 1:51 pm
I fully understand what you are going through. My heart will always go out to you. Never marry a man hoping to change him, he will never change.
加油！你行得!!
You will live a better life without him! …
December 8th, 2008 at 7:53 pm
离婚并不是末日，而是一种解脱。为自己的将来喝彩！明天会更好！
December 8th, 2008 at 10:17 pm
Take care!
December 10th, 2008 at 9:42 am
when the going get tough, the tough get going!!!
December 11th, 2008 at 1:45 am
怡凤姐，别忘了叫你的女儿寄信给圣诞老人。
December 11th, 2008 at 6:01 pm
Hi YiFeng,
I admire you courage to choose to walk this path, which I’m now also in the process of the divorce procedures.
It is very pain going thu this process, after all we have children, will they being look down by others I ask myself.
Really hope I can be as strong as you are, maybe we can have a club to encourage each other of same situation.
Yin Yin
Sincerely wish and hope you can find your right man in your next stage of life.
Stay happy always, take good care of yourself.
December 12th, 2008 at 12:06 am
怡风，加油。妹妹还需要你的照顾和支持。要坚强和快乐。如果需要朋友，倪知到哪里找我们。向前看吧！你可以的。
December 12th, 2008 at 2:28 am
离了！你就会快乐吗？？？不会更痛吗？？会舍得吗？？不过还是从心里佩服你们这些人。勇敢 。我也想，但是，我做不到.现代的人！！！为啥离婚热啊/因为离得起啊/为啥离得起啊？有钱了，有房了，有车了，有钻石了，有孩子了，有名了，有三陪了，有鸡了，有鸭了，所以有想法了。该有的都有了。那还的舍啥呀？？？快点撒优那拉呗！！！！！！都啥时代了，耗子都给猫当三陪了！1
December 12th, 2008 at 9:42 am
YiFeng, congratulations!
December 12th, 2008 at 10:35 am
Be strong,be happy , n be funny! hope u will be happy forever!
December 12th, 2008 at 10:51 am
祝你幸福 。
December 16th, 2008 at 1:02 pm
喜欢你不需要理由，支持你用我的实际行动。加油，凤姐，为新加坡那么多爱你的观众。
December 17th, 2008 at 10:26 pm
权妈妈，加油啊。。。
December 19th, 2008 at 12:02 am
U r a brave woman who never sucumb to failure.加油！Check out http://www.makeupnskincare.blogspot.com/ for Korean Make Up & Skin Care. TQ!
December 19th, 2008 at 5:39 am
Bush’s trip was to celebrate the conclusion of the security pact,
lange l70
madilra
February 6th, 2009 at 9:58 pm
过得好吗？
时间慢慢地流逝，渐渐地也忘了不开心的事吧？希望你越来越好 （：
婷。
June 30th, 2009 at 11:04 am
看红星大奖转播时，不幸看到你离婚的消息。
在记忆中，你是那样一个女子，坚强，开朗，乐观，和蔼；在脑海中，你是那样一位精灵，开心，快乐，顽皮，搞怪；在心里，希望所有的荣誉都可以归你，在梦里，希望你拥有所有的幸福。看上海全球华语主持人颁奖典礼时，瞧见你，窃喜很久，骄傲的对周围人说，这是我呆了几年宝岛里最漂亮最可爱最好的主持人。
以后的路，牵着你的手，我们一起走。希望你永远幸福，快乐。
无论发生什么，你的身边总会有人支持你，无论我们是否相识。