农历新年就快到了 ! 对我来说只有过了农历新年才算是过了一年.
回望过去这一年 , 有欢笑有悲伤 , 有相聚也有分离。
2007年年尾到 2008 初 , 短短两个月内我就失去了俩个朋友。
他们走得太突然 , 太年轻，以至于教人心酸 , 让人不舍!
到现在我手机里还留著Freddy and MC King俩人的电话号码 , 我舍不得 Delete ,
舍不得 …………….!
每每把玩电话 , 在手机里找人名打电话时总会不经意掠过俩人的名字。
这好像一直在提醒我 , 他们曾经来过这世上 , 我和他们曾在人生路程上碰过面。
一想到这里，我的心就会开始往下沉。
有时候会认为这样对待自己太残忍了 , 把他们的电话号码Delete不就没事了吗？
可是我真的不想也不敢。
不想是因为不舍，
不敢是因为深怕自己会忘了他们。。。
我从来都不记得他们的号码 , 只靠手机的电话簿 ,Delete了之后我就永远失去了他
们 !
跟朋友提起此事从来没有人劝我 Delete , 只有开玩笑说 : 半夜里电话响起，如
果识别来电看到的是 Freddy或 MC的名字，别自己吓到自己……………….. !
前一篇文章，激起很多人留言。
有的安慰 , 有的辱骂 , 有的互相对骂 , 有的挑战极限辱骂加诅咒。
我看了又惊又喜 !
几经天人交战过后也决定 Delete !
搞到 ( 报应 ) 满天飞 , 干嘛呢 ?
网落世界太可悲 , 写你好的留名带留性；乱骂人又自以为是的 , 确连个 ( 屁 )
影都不敢留 ?
这世上正人君子有几个 ???
阿姊 ( 惠玉 ) 名言 : 回望过去美好的事物要记得 , 不愉快的事就忘了它吧！只
因人生太短暂 , 又何须为难自己 ?
这世上有很多事情与记忆都须要 Delete!有智慧的人保留快乐,忘记悲伤!
新的一年就快来 , 除了大扫除 , 很多事情也该清除 , 人要自己成全自己 !
Delete 不是勇敢跨过 , 而是勇敢面对了 ! 想开了得到的更多。
Freddy and MC 永在心里 !
从今而后只能怀念 , 不能思念 , 每当想起不再落泪 , 大步向前走人人都希望新的
一年会更好
January 20th, 2008 at 11:04 pm
今天看到你主持的新节目， ＂爱上Giant＂. 感觉上好象带有些疲意． 多保重．
January 20th, 2008 at 11:12 pm
YiFong Jie, Glad that you are one of the wise pple that decided to put aside all unhappiness and move on. Me too. Last yr was a long and tough yr for me. But it’s also a learning yr for me too. Learn to be wisely deal with pple, deal w my own feeling, deal w my work, etc. I also lost a loved ones (wrote in my blog), and learn how to deal w lots of issues up and coming. So let’s learn together. I know we will have more to learn ahead of us. So let’s Jiayou!
January 21st, 2008 at 6:34 am
Every1 in every1 elses life is always come and go..
Brace Up and Work Hard..
Hope to see the 4 series
of You Hua Zhi Shuo!
Btw, ur Heatwave staffs is vy Good! esply, Jimson, Joanne and Vincent!
Thanks…and Cheers!
With Best Regards..
(One of your Supporter from .Han She.)
January 21st, 2008 at 3:24 pm
[...] 看了权大妈在部落格的一篇有关Delete的文章后，有感而发地找了这首诗和你分享. [...]
January 21st, 2008 at 9:37 pm
i understand what u feel when u trying to delete the numbers. i understand the 不舍得，怕忘记 etc. it’s hard but we just gotta leave with it.
stay healthy, be happy thats what our friends would want it to be.
cheers =)
January 21st, 2008 at 11:41 pm
Hi Yifong Jie, Juz fyi, I do sleep everyday. Haha. Juz that mayb got the sixth sense knowing that you are writing some new stuff. So when I came in, you indeed had a new entry and I wrote something for you too. Anyway, thanks for allow me to learn something from your blog too. If I’m able to see you on the road somewhere, sometimes, I’ll say hi to you. Dun worry!
January 22nd, 2008 at 1:30 am
怡風姐,你說的對.人生就是要記得好的事情,壞的事情就丟一邊.
至於MC,就讓我想起以下的歌詞
“我懷念的 是無話不說
我懷念的 是一起作夢
我懷念的 是爭吵以後
還是想要愛你的衝動
我記得那年生日
也記得那一首歌
記得那片星空
最近的右手
最暖的胸口
谁記得 谁忘了”
January 22nd, 2008 at 4:48 am
I lost friends along the way too.
I still keep their numbers in my phone, somehow it is like my way of remembering them. it is almost i am reluctant to let them go.
Wishing u all the best for the coming new year!
January 22nd, 2008 at 4:50 pm
Well, in life we will come to a time we have to learn how to let go. We human have survival instinct. At time, we will feel certain things may find hard to let go but it is a fact of life. We learn every day and grow up to be a better person.
I am glad to see you back on your two feet. Let us not ponder the past but go forward into the future.
Bless you with a better 2008 and years to come.
January 23rd, 2008 at 10:55 pm
sorry i cannot type in chinese words. but i absolutely understand how much you cant bear to delete the numbers. sometimes, that is only the memory left for us to remember, even though we may say they live in our hearts forever. as for your “incident”, just forget abt it. the earth wont stop spinning becos of an unhappy incident, do be strong k!!
wo ai ni!!
=))
January 24th, 2008 at 12:11 am
mark lee’s wife just pregnant?
January 28th, 2008 at 1:20 am
怡風姐,我剛才觀看這一集的GIANT节目.那位女參賽者真好笑.她把果汁講成guo chap.讓我笑翻天了.我看妳笑到說不出話來吧
可是真的,參賽者,尤其是藝人組隊長,不應該隨便把食品,如米,把它亂扔在地上,或是把它給踩了.這些食品在過程當中利用了多少人力物力才把它送到超級市場.我知道,因為我是做這行的工作
我建議以後,只要是牽涉到食品的話,請提醒他們小心地把食品放一邊,要不然在這個環節里,就把謎底放在一些不是食品的地方.
January 28th, 2008 at 6:27 pm
Hello YiFong Jie Jie
I have a question to ask you, could you please email me?
Regards
molemole
( 請問妳找我有什麼事 ? 妳盡管留言 , 如有任何不方便可通知我看完就 delete ok ! ) 怡鳳 .
January 28th, 2008 at 9:45 pm
check this out, think it is talking about MC King incident. very good!!
http://blog.omy.sg/mobeizao/archives/25
January 28th, 2008 at 11:11 pm
怡凤姐！加油~加油~
提早祝你新年快乐~
期待今年的新年节目~不知道可不可以看到你~哈哈，从小就看你主持到现在，怀念ing~ =)
try your best to enjoy ur life as much as possible!?
=)
开开心心每一天！
January 29th, 2008 at 12:08 pm
pass by~ =) happy everyday~ =)
January 30th, 2008 at 11:58 am
加油！！ 怡凤。
February 3rd, 2008 at 9:07 am
为什么你的blog留言都是英文的，请问你看得明白有多少个呢？不是lookdown on you ，纯粹好奇。。。
February 5th, 2008 at 7:01 pm
i can totally understand ur feeling…my fren,who is juz 21,leave me yesterday morning…wat a sweet ger she is…gone so sudenly…so sad…
i dun delete her contact,like u said,i dun 1 she disapear in my life forever…
February 7th, 2008 at 10:23 pm
Happy Chinese Lunar New Year 2008 to everyone! May all your dreams come true!
February 8th, 2008 at 1:43 am
嗨怡風姐.祝妳新年快樂,萬事如意. 還有,希望你能把以前妳遇到的不如意的事情,通通把它給扔掉,迎接好運的到來.
February 10th, 2008 at 2:22 pm
你说的freddy是谁？中文名字是什么？
他的名字叫 { 王江龍 } ! 怡鳳 !
February 13th, 2008 at 10:43 pm
Hi Everyone and YiFong Jie. Wish Everyone Happy Birthday on this ‘ren ri’ & Happy Valentine’s Day on 14 Feb! Hope you all have a great time w your loved ones, be it family or lover.
February 15th, 2008 at 1:54 am
怎么没有更新你的部落格了？
February 16th, 2008 at 1:21 am
嗨怡風姐.今天看妳上新聞了.因為妳站在李顯龍的後面.妳看到他,會不會很緊張?
February 16th, 2008 at 1:22 am
因為妳站在李顯龍總理的後面
February 16th, 2008 at 11:36 am
亲爱的怡風姐:
不久前,是通过mc king的部落得知你的….经过这么多的风雨,其实,我很欣赏你的直率,也让我感觉到你的坚强和拿得起,放得下的性格!!!
从你进入新传媒至今,在我影像里,你是个意志力非常坚强的女人!!!看见保章有你的新闻,我都会为你感到悲哀…
艺人是人,不是神!!!人非圣贤,熟能无过???知错能改,就不应该再伤口上洒盐….该赞美的时候,不可少…该责骂的时候,不可多!!!
最后,希望在未来的日子里,你的演义道路可以更加的风顺…生活更加的充实!!!
祝福你….
February 20th, 2008 at 3:10 am
long time never visit here sia~ wish you a very very happy new year. erm… no new post neh~ how are you recently? =)
February 20th, 2008 at 1:41 pm
Yi Fong jie!
I totally agree with what you mentioned in your blog entries. – we have to remember the happy things and just forget those unhappy things.
Last but not least – i enjoy watching your show. I like the way you host. I simply like your style!
Always remember to stay happy okay. Focus on the good things
Lots of hugsss
February 22nd, 2008 at 1:13 pm
怡凤,
只要你天天 happy………..
February 27th, 2008 at 9:42 pm
why u didn’t update for such a long time ??
are you having some problems ??
hope u will update soon…
March 1st, 2008 at 3:28 pm
怡鳳姐，
祝你生日快樂，天天開心。
我會永遠支持你的！
加油~！
pet
March 2nd, 2008 at 2:23 pm
Happy belated birthday!!
March 9th, 2008 at 11:53 am
busy ah? so long never update…. u r one month plus behind time! Haha….
March 10th, 2008 at 12:26 am
怡風姐,那位叫paul chan的仁兄,真的用他的部落格,利用燕姿來炒作, 來增加他的部落格的名氣.而且他給燕姿的評語都不正面的.他還所謂的玩弄語言,來解釋他所謂的”紅”藝人或歌手,最後越解釋越糟糕.他贏了lor.
March 22nd, 2008 at 10:19 am
菩提本无树，明镜一非台
本来无一物，何处惹尘埃。
为什么每当一个阴儿来到，这个人间的时候
每个人都那么欢嬉，那又为什么当一个人离开的时候，大家又哭哭啼啼。
有人能了解以上的意思吗，好好想想吧。
June 29th, 2008 at 7:59 pm
权怡凤女士：
这是我为你写的一篇短文，祝福你能活在快乐、幸福中。加油！
——–
当年，我也和很多国人一样，不喜欢权怡凤，因媒体当时的报道，实在让人觉得这个艺人太嚣张，太自以为是，太幼稚。
近几年来，尤其是从有第二家电视台开始，我越来越欣赏这个主持人。不但因为她能言善道，更因为看到了她的真。
犹记得，有一回，她和林明伦到鸿福大厦(The Concours)拍外景节目，我的同事被幕后人拉去受访，回到办公室，告诉我权怡凤在楼下，我立刻下楼向她要签名（我妈喜欢她。我为妈妈要了好多签名，还包括陈健彬的）。
说巧还真巧，副导竟是我的小学兼中学同学。当下我们交换名片和联络方式，同时赞叹着岁月怎么都没有在对方脸上留下痕迹。权怡凤站在旁边，听到我们的电话，竟然感慨地说：“你们就好了，都在同一个国家，那么多年后，还可以老同学重逢，我就没有这种机会了。”
当时，我感到非常意外。
一来，我诧异于她如此坦白于人前，我根本是个陌生观众，她却毫无戒心（这不太符合我对艺人的看法，他们一般不是会比较有防卫心吗？），一点也不掩饰自己的情绪，直接说出她对我们的羡慕；二来，我听到了她话里蕴藏的孤寂。
我知道她和我一样，都得过抑郁症，但我一直以为，已婚、有可爱的女儿、有好朋友又得到观众支持的她，会过得比较快乐。没想到她心里藏着这样深刻的孤独。
看到前几日她在谈话节目中的访谈，发现过了这几年，她仍然还活在伤感中。我很心痛，也很难过。虽然我根本不认识她，但是看到一个人，如此用心卖力地娱乐电视观众，转过身去，却是悲伤地面对自己的生活，怎么能无动于衷？
我突然好害怕，怕她接下来的生活仍然只是“对人欢笑背人愁”。
只能为她祈祷了，要为她加油。